Our Mission:

To empower young people to:

  • Find their voice,
  • Be part of the solution, and
  • Change the way their generation treats each other …

So that schools and communities are places:

  • Of acceptance and tolerance,
  • Where empathy and kindness are second nature, and
  • Where each child can rise to their full potential, without fear of being bullied.

Our Vision:

We envision a world where every child feels safe, valued, heard, and respected. We want each person to know their worth and believe that they matter and that it’s important to be true to who they are no matter what anyone else says. The world will be a better place if each individual is accepted and allowed to be themselves, so they can make their own unique impact—whether they make a difference in the life of one person or millions. Each individual’s contribution matters, and together, they drive the progress of humanity.

You Matter!

Amy Jones Anichini created Act Like You Matter to promote the well-being of children, tweens, and teens so that each child feels accepted and free to be themselves without being bullied.

Amy Jones Anichini, Founder and President of Act Like You Matter and Executive Director and Author of Theatre of Peace. (Photo Credit: Deidhra Fahey Photography)

I created Act Like You Matter for you, me, and the next generation of adults: to empower them to find their voice and impact their world in a positive way. Each of us has the capacity to show kindness to others, to empathize with them, and to validate them as worthwhile, but we could use some reminders about how to do those things and why they’re so important. Because bullying is a cycle, it’s easy to play the role we’re handed: the target who feels defeated; the bystander who turns away or is afraid to intervene; the follower who watches their friends bully others and either laughs, joins in, or does nothing; the aggressor who starts the bullying. Nevertheless, no matter what role we play in the cycle of bullying, each of us can choose to behave in a different way that will curb – and maybe one day eradicate – bullying.

Act Like You Matter provides the tools that can help each of us be part of the solution.

A Little History

The seeds for Act Like You Matter were planted in the fall of 2010, when my husband and I discovered that our youngest daughter, Chase, was being bullied by several children in her 2nd grade class. Desperate to understand what was happening to our daughter, I plunged myself into bullying research,  books on bullying (both non-fiction and children’s fiction), and any other resource I could get my hands on. To make a very long story short, we worked with Chase to re-build her confidence and helped her develop a 3-step strategy for how to deal with kids who treated her poorly.

In 2013, Chase and I co-authored Baffle That Bully! to empower young children who are targets of bullying and to help families whose lives are impacted by bullying behavior. We wrote the book because she wanted to help other kids; words can’t describe how much that inspired me! After the book was published, I dedicated myself to working with non-profits that serve children and raise awareness about bullying prevention and intervention. In 2015, I founded Act Like You Matter and recruited a group of outstanding young people to join me in creating and delivering content that would help our youth change the way they treat each other.

 

Today:

We’re proud to have worked with 12,900+ students and 860+ educators on campus at K-12 schools in San Diego County and Los Angeles County. Over the years, we’ve expanded to provide multiple services and programs for schools and community organizations as well as services for individuals and families.

Programs & Services for Schools, Businesses, and Community Organizations:

  • Student-led, age-appropriate, anti-bullying empowerment programs for K-12: Through these programs, we demonstrate and teach tools & strategies students can use immediately if they witness or are the target of bullying behavior. Offered:
    1. On campus at schools and businesses in San Diego County, LA County, and everywhere in between;
    2. Live Streamed (everywhere!)
  • Bullying Prevention Consulting for Schools and Businesses:
    1. Advising you on your policies and written language for your handbooks surrounding all things related to bullying and harassment, including:
      • Accurate definitions of bullying and harassment,
      • Expectations for student behavior, and
      • Clear and specific reporting procedures
    2. Mentoring your student leaders in setting the example for behavior norms on campus.
  • Scripts of our solution-focused programs: Available for licensing so you can perform our content in your schools and communities.

Services for Kids, Teens, and Families:

Update on the Little Book of Empowerment That Started It All:

Oh, and that book that Chase and wrote has been adapted into an empowering stage play Baffle Away Bullying! Interactive Stage Play for K-3rd. It’s been our most popular program ever since it debuted in early 2018. It’s also our first program that’s available to rent by anyone, anywhere, anytime!

Baffle Away Bullying is currently available to access in 4 different ways. Click to learn more

(1) Hire Theatre of Peace (“TOP”), to perform it person at your school (must be easily drivable from San Diego, CA)

(2) Hire TOP to perform it via live stream for your K-3rd students (everywhere)

(3) Rent the video version, complete with talented youth actors from TOP, audience participation, and attention-grabbing, kid-friendly digital art throughout, by clicking this link: Check out the trailer & rent the video here!

(4) License the script and (a) Perform it at your school or in your community or (b) Read it in your classroom.

 

Real Change Will Only Come from Them

Through many years of parenting and working alongside children, tweens, and teens, I’ve come to believe in the power of young people. They have immense capacity to reach each other and connect in ways that adults just can’t. By sharing their experiences and what’s worked for them, they can support each other, make sure no one feels alone in what they’re experiencing, and help bring about positive changes. Real change in the way young people treat each other will only happen if it starts with them, and that’s what Act Like You Matter is all about.

All the best,

Amy